Wednesday, November 23, 2022

November 19, 2022

 Saturday. Neal and Paul had a Lego derby at church this morning, so they came over for waffles and to put finishing touches on their cars. Penny came too, of course, and spent the morning with Ernie. They really seem to love each other.



I got more writing done until Neal and Paul came back mid-afternoon. We had burgers and hot dogs for dinner, then played Splendor until all the cards were gone, which is one of my favorite things. 

November 18 2022

 Friday. Swam in the morning at Shoreview, and had to cancel lunch with Rui because my car still won’t start. I felt bad about that; she had said she was fixing Beijing noodles as a special treat to celebrate my birthday. I have a feeling I really disappointed her.

Spent most of the day getting back into my writing and submitting a very late assignment to the Inner Circle group. I feel positive about the new direction I’m taking with Freya’s story. So glad I have this group to work with.

Estee and her folks are in Vegas, so I invited Neal and Paul over for dinner, had leftover soup from small group, plus made some (poor) stir fry to use up some veggies in the crisper. Played Paul’s favorite game after dinner: Cards against Humanity. He laughs so much during that game, it’s worth the tediousness and the poop humor.

November 17, 2022

 Thursday. Still fatigued, but had a dermatology appointment in the morning at Bandana Square. My car wouldn’t start (dead battery?) so I took Phil’s car. The doctor burned off several spots on my hands and also excised a Pilar cyst on my scalp, so I walked out with a huge bandage in my hair. Had to shop for groceries with my hood on. 

Fixed soup and bread and almond cake for small group in the afternoon, managed a brief lie-down, and then had my writer’s group Zoom meeting from 5-6 p.m. Then small group came at 6:30, and during the meeting Phil and I talked about how we have seen God at work in our lives, and how our faith has grown through what we’ve lived through. I like this group very much. We will skip meeting next week due to Thanksgiving, but have a Friendsgiving meal together sometime in December.

Busy day, but satisfying.

November 16, 2022

 Wednesday. This day was a wash. Didn’t get much done except laundry, due to a combination of fatigue and the cold and snow. We came back to five inches on the ground:


Too bad, because I had hoped to spread more leaves on my perennial bed and also dig up the carrots before the ground froze. But it was wonderful to have a day with no schedule and no obligations. 


November 9-15, 2022 SEATTLE

 We left Minneapolis around noon on Weds., Nov. 9, leaving a clean house and relatively warm, dry weather. Jeff took us to the airport, and we had an uneventful flight (watched a Downton Abbey movie and were given seats in Comfort +). Rachel and the kids picked us up from the airport, and we caught up on all their news on the way home. Much unhappiness still about the failed purchase of a cabin. 

Had a time of good conversation at dinner, some laughter around the table to lighten the mood. Helen gave Grampy a beauty treatment, which got lots of chuckles.




The kids adore him, especially Evan. He and Evan spent a lot of time together, reading stories and just hanging out. We put the kids to bed that night, as Andrew and Rachel went to a concert. 

The next morning I took the kids to the bus with their new dog, Dash, then took a run in the forest trails by Lake Samamish. It felt good to have energy and be out in the trees. Still lots of color here (green stays all year round, and fall colors are still at their peak). Cool, sunny weather. 


Helen stayed home from school with a cough on Thursday, and Rachel went on a hike in the afternoon. I shopped for groceries and prepared roast chicken and mashed potatoes for dinner, as Dennis and Denise were coming for super. Had a nice meal all together, though poor Helen was on a colon cleanse and couldn’t eat our food.

Friday the kids had off school (Veteran’s Day), so we hung out and watched lots of videos and played games. I took Dash for another walk in the forest, but was pretty tired from the day before. 




Lovely day, though. Phil and the kids played frisbee and football in the front yard, which gave me a chance to rest and read my book (Faithful Place by Tana French novel, well written, strong voice). Tri-tip dinner, then went to see Katie perform with her improv group in Seattle, while Andrew and Evan went to hockey practice. A very entertaining evening.

Saturday we went to see Evan play hockey and were amazed at how well he is skating. Would love to have him out to Minnesota this winter to skate on the lake. Stopped at Costco for groceries and lunch. Helen finally off colon cleanse. Dog and kids got vaccinations in the afternoon. Baked chocolate chip cookies. Chicken soup for dinner.

On Sunday, Andrew and Rachel went on a day-long hike. Phil and I were going to take the kids to church, but I woke up with extreme dizziness—probably a viral inner ear infection. So we stayed home and relaxed, which was probably what the kids needed. Katie came over in the afternoon, and we played Splendor and took a walk. So nice to see her. Played a game of Splendor with both Katie and Rachel, then stayed up late to finish my book.

Kids back to school on Monday. I did more grocery shopping, also made a huge pot of vegetable soup for Rachel—probably too much, but she can freeze some. Fixed Tri-tip again for evening meal, though Andrew couldn’t make it and then rushed off with Evan for hockey practice again. Too much going on. Took a last walk in the woods—tree-bathing, the Japanese call it. Very restorative.

Tuesday: took Helen to the bus stop. Evan had a doctor’s appointment, but Rachel returned early enough to take Phil and me to the airport. Good-bye, dear house and family.






Arriving back in Minneapolis at rush hour, we got an Uber because the roads were bad (snow).
Went to Neal’s for dinner, caught up on his and Estee’s news, then finally home, sweet home.




Tuesday, November 8, 2022

November 8, 2002

Election Tuesday. We voted last week (“Vote early, vote often,” as Phil says), and expect a slightly better picture for Republicans. Cold, blustery morning, though I went for a run to the creek and back. Spent much of the day on my writing and on making more dog food for Ernie. Rain this evening. It gets dark so early, I feel like crawling into bed at 6:30 already. 

Tomorrow we leave for Seattle—bring Ernie away to Neal’s, and Jeff will pick us up at noon to go to the airport. So lots to do yet: clean fridge and toss old food, do laundry, pack, repot a few plants, plant my baby delphinium and finish mulching the flowers with leaves, etc. Leave the house clean. I’m glad I’m at a stage in my life where I can actually do that. I love this little house.

Two things that give me pleasure when I look at them:

I made this bouquet from flowers left over from a bouquet I made for Julie.
It’s so cheerful and is lasting so long. 

We picked up this Norfolk pine from Lowe’s yesterday,
along with white lights. It’s so nice in that corner—
better than the dying palm.


November 7, 2022

Monday. A lovely, lovely sleep last night—about nine hours. Deep and restful, with both windows open a crack and cold, fresh air over my cheeks, with the rest of me snuggled under the warm blue blanket. I love my bed….

After devotions, I decided to run. I haven’t done so in at least a month, and it was a chilly 26 degrees, but I went anyway, dressed almost too warmly. I had to take my gloves off partway through. Ran the south loop to the bridge and back, a little over two miles, and felt quite good. My time wasn’t so good—almost 15 minutes for the first mile, and over 16 minutes for the second. About my fastest walking speed. Oh well, I want to enjoy it too. 

After weights and stretching, I showered and ate breakfast, then dug into writing. I have made strides in revising the beginning of Freya’s story, so that I know where it’s taking her. I worked for a couple of hours, then went with Phil to Menard’s to look at their selection of bathroom items. Found a great sink that is below budget, so we can spend more on the shower and door. 

Tried writing later in the afternoon but my legs ached from running, so lay down for a while, then tried to clean out the fridge for dinner (we leave for Seattle on Weds.). Began reading a book from the library (The Last Cuenista), which is good enough to keep reading. Made some of Ernie’s dog food for when we’re gone, then read in bed until I fell asleep. 

November 19, 2022

 Saturday. Neal and Paul had a Lego derby at church this morning, so they came over for waffles and to put finishing touches on their cars. ...