Sunday, November 6, 2022

November 6, 2022

Sunday. Did not sleep well last night, probably due to keeping Penny in my office and giving Paul my big bed. Daylight savings time has ended. Paul woke after 7 a.m. and demanded waffles, which I am glad is becoming a standard breakfast at Grammy’s. 

I have to include two sticky notes Paul created and put on the two entrances to the living room area. He wanted to prevent Penny and Ernie from romping through there, destroying the elaborate race course he had constructed for his Hot Wheels car, using pillows, game boxes, books and magazines, and dominoes. They kept breaking through his barriers, so he put up this note to keep them out:


We discussed that the dogs might not understand or even read English, so he fashioned a different sticky note and posted it on the other side:

That should keep them out!

We all went to the 9:00 service, and I invited Neal and Estee to noon dinner after the later service—leftovers of roast chicken from the night before, and warmed-up mashed potatoes from Thanksgiving (still good!). Also leftover squash and applesauce and a fresh salad. It was good to have them around the table again. 

After cleanup, Phil and I collapsed into naps, and then I went on a 3.5-mile walk in an attempt to burn through my 700 calories. It did add 300 calories, so good. The day is cold and blustery, and all the leaves are off the trees. I took in the lemon to protect it from frost, and Phil and I got the leaves raked and onto the garden beds.



Read some of C. S. Lewis’s musings on stories for children this afternoon. He said that he wrote from images: “I see pictures. Some of these pictures have a common flavor, almost a common smell, which groups them together. Keep quiet and watch and they will begin joining themselves up…. More often there are gaps. Then at last you have to do some deliberate inventing, have to contrive reasons why these characters should be in these various places doing these various things. I have no idea whether this is the usual way of writing stories, still less whether it is the best. It is the only one I know: images always come first.” He began the Narnia series after imagining a faun serving a girl an elaborate high tea.

One of Lewis’s comments resonated with how and why I write: “Ask ‘What moral do I need?’ For I think we can be sure that what does not concern us [as authors] deeply will not deeply interest our readers, whatever their age. But it is better not to ask the questions at all. Let the pictures tell you their own moral. For the moral inherent in them will rise from whatever spiritual roots you have succeeded in striking during the whole course of your life.” Amen.

Critiqued Christine Widemann’s submission for Inner Circle; still need to critique the GR group’s. Perhaps on the plane? I have completed a rough, revised trajectory for Freya’s story and must start writing immediately! Onward!


Saturday, November 5, 2022

November 5, 2022

Saturday. Fixed Paul his usual waffle and whipped cream breakfast. He is so good, such a delight to have around. After breakfast, he practiced his music lesson on Phil’s keyboard. Amazing that he actually enjoys practicing.



Phil and I raked leaves after breakfast, while Paul played with the dogs and goofed around with the ice from the bird bath. Then I took Paul to Menards, Costco, and Target. We picked up grocery items for the church’s Thanksgiving food baskets. At home again, Paul played with his new Hot Wheels car and dragon launcher, making a complicated racetrack out of pillows, game boxes, magazines, and dominoes in the living room. After turkey soup for lunch, I managed a nap while Phil read Paul his graphic novel about Sherlock Holmes. Then Phil went down for a nap while I cleared the living room with Paul, then put him on the iPad while I raked more leaves. A cold, misty day. I tried to dry my sheets on the line, but they just got damper, so I finally put them in the dryer.

Dinner was roast chicken and leftover mashed potatoes, and then we watched The Sword in the Stone. Paul fell asleep almost immediately afterward, clutching his Hot Wheels launcher. And I caught up on a week’s worth of this blog. No other writing today. Hopefully will get some done tomorrow, as we leave for Seattle on Wednesday.

November 4, 2022

Friday. I got up feeling more energy, so went to the gym to get a quick swim in. Amazing how you can burn 400 calories in just 40 minutes. 

Neal picked us up at 9:00 to go to Paul’s school in Hugo to hear him recite a poem on Hannibal, along with the rest of his first-grade class, who had memorized short poems on Julius Caesar, Cleopatra, etc. Very fun.


Spent much of the afternoon working on the new story summary, then had Paul for dinner and the evening. Began raking the back lawn, giving Penny time to play outside. Paul and I built a fire while Phil napped, then he got up and cooked hamburger and hot dog over the fire, and after dinner we watched Peter Rabbit 2. Paul slept over, as Estee is at a conference and Neal went up north to hunt with a friend from church. 


November 3, 2022

Thursday. Still felt peckish, stomach still not right. Had a 10:00 appointment with our financial advisor to sign papers for transfer of my Spectrum retirement account, then went with Phil to Lowe’s to pick out items for our basement/bathroom remodel. 



We would have gone to Menards to see what they had to offer as well, but I was too tired, so we came home. 

Focused on writing today, which felt great. Have found a new trajectory for Freya’s story, more drama and tension/conflict. Have begun writing a new summary for the novel. Spent most of the morning on that, then got ready for small group—baked bread, made turkey soup, cut apples, baked a blueberry coffee cake. 

Group members came at 6:30 for supper, then Bible study and sharing. There are 8 of us regulars, which is a good size, I think. Michael and Sterling talked about their faith journeys—very personal. Everyone seems to want to stay late and talk. A good group, and we feel very much at home in it. 

November 2, 2022

Wednesday. Had a bit of stomach upset today, also very tired. Tried to focus on writing, but not very successful. Worried about Neal and Estee. Worried about Rachel and Andrew. Prayed a lot, fasted in the morning. Who would we turn to if not to God? I don’t know how others cope. 

Forced myself to take a 3-mile walk in late afternoon to keep up with my Apple Watch regimen. 



The day was mild, but the walk was exhausting. Neal took us out to dinner for pho with Paul, very delicious but my stomach still off kilter. Climbed into bed almost immediately upon coming home, slept 11 hours. 


November 1, 2022

Tuesday. I don’t remember much about today except that I was very tired, did no writing, took naps, drank tea, and simply wandered about in a daze. I told myself this was natural, that I had just had a busy and people-filled week, and now needed rest. Took no walks. Thankfully we had plenty of food, so no need to cook. A waste of a day? I’m not sure.

October 31, 2022

Monday. Said good-bye to Paul and Del and Misty at exactly 8:00 a.m. (amazing!) after a breakfast of scrambled eggs, oatmeal muffins, and juice. Then cleaned up the house a bit, sweeping and dusting and putting things away, until Barb and Gord came over late morning to have lunch and spend the afternoon. So nice to sit and talk. We considered taking a walk, but Gord was a bit sore from the previous day’s walk, so we sat and watched All Creatures Great and Small, getting in three episodes before they had to go back for dinner with Claira and Jaren. A lovely afternoon.

A quiet evening. I took a walk just before supper. The day was quiet, with most of the color gone and the world a bleached and muted color. But the sunset was lovely. I walked the south loop of the Rice Creek trail, and it was very restorative.





To bed early, with the hopes of getting back into writing on Tuesday.

November 19, 2022

 Saturday. Neal and Paul had a Lego derby at church this morning, so they came over for waffles and to put finishing touches on their cars. ...